Testimonials from Registrants
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page so that others may get the benefit of their experience with
the Registry. All contributors to this page have given the
Registry permission to post their comments on the Internet.
Names have been withheld by request. If you would like to submit
your comments, please send them to the address below, and be
sure to specify that you are giving your permission for us to
post your comments on this web page.
U.S. Living Will
Registry
Attention: Testimonials
523 Westfield Ave., PO Box 2789
Westfield, NJ 07091-2789
__________________________________________________________
"The U.S. Living Will Registry has been for not only myself but
my husband and family a "God Sent". I am thankful my husband
keeps abreast of current events always listening to radio and
T.V. as well as reading a newspaper that he heard about the
organization. We are all glad he did. I have recommended and
requested information be sent to our local physician. Keep up
the good work."
--Name withheld, Cortlandt Manor, New York
"I wholeheartedly recommend advance directives and registration
with the U.S. Living Will Registry. My directive is registered
additionally at our local hospital and a copy is in my
physician's records.
I feel it is important that my desires are known-in advance-to the
medical caregivers most likely to provide early care in case of
any emergency. It is far easier-in my opinion-to prevent extreme
measures initially rather than to have them withdrawn after
starting!
I also have your sticker attached to my driver's license.
Thank you-I wish you continued support. Keep up the good work!"
--Name withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
"I am so thankful for this service and the peace of mind it
gives me. I was skeptical at first but have found the registry
easy to work with and very private and cooperative. I would
recommend the registry to anyone."
--Name withheld, Alamogordo, New Mexico
"I am very glad I registered my advanced directive. As
caregiver for my mother, my father, and my stepmother I cannot
express the peace of mind that registering gives. My husband and
daughter will never go through the stress of wondering if they
are acting according to my wishes. It will be very clear for
them. In a way, making my advanced directive is protecting my
husband and daughter, even when I am seriously ill. When a loved
one is seriously ill is the worst possible time to deal with the
subtleties and ramifications of hospital and legal
bureaucracies. This will free them from a lot of those worries."
--Name withheld, Kingston, Washington
"We registered because we move often and travel a great deal.
We wanted our wishes carried out by the medical profession no
matter where we happened to be. They have access this way. We
have not been hassled in any way because of this registration,
and we highly recommend this service."
--Felton M., Westchester, Pennsylvania
"I, as a physician, and my wife, as a registered nurse,
registered with the "U.S. Living Will Registry" because we feel
it is a wonderful service available to everyone who wishes to
have confidence their desires will be honored at a time they may
not be in a position to make those critical instructions known
themselves. It negates the necessity to carry "instructions"
with you, or to have to burden family or friends with
responsibilities they may not wish to have. We have recommended
this service to other family members and friends.
Thank you very much for providing a much needed way to have
our advanced directives available 24 hrs/day to those health
care providers who will be able to honor our wishes."
--Name withheld, Lahaina, Hawaii
"I recently had knee replacement surgery. They requested proof
of a living will. I was most grateful that we were registered
with the U.S. Living Will Registry. Thank you."
--Name withheld, Phoenix, Arizona
"I registered my wife's and my advanced directives with you
because access to it could be obtained by any hospital or other
facility by contacting your organization should such a need
arise. Your sticker affixed to my Medicare Card is a very
convenient way to let anyone who needs to know whether I have
such a directive, since I do not carry a copy with me. I am glad
I did. I do think your organization provides a valuable
service.”
--William H., Maplewood, New Jersey
"Our experience with the U.S. Living Will Registry has been all
positive. We feel assured that our registration is immediately
available to prevent any possible mistake from occurring…by
accident or otherwise."
--Jack P., Hilton Head Island, South Carolina
"I registered my wishes with U.S. Living Will Registry because
it is comforting to know my family will not bear the burden of
having to make this decision, these are my wishes.
You have to be involved in such a crisis to know how it really
affects family members. For me, I have taken steps to insure
that when and if this situation occurs, my family will not be
the ones to make this decision.
U.S. Living Will Registry provides a valuable service and I
would strongly recommend others to register their advance
directives with the Registry.”
--Henry D., Fredericksburg, Virginia
“It makes a lot of sense.
Yes I’m very happy to have ‘planned’ in advance.
I have never been bothered by the L.W.R. people.
Once I signed on that was it.
I recommend it for anyone who is thoughtful and cares for
the people around him. Just to know it will be so much easier for them, should
anything happen to me.”
--William N., Meriden, Connecticut
“I don’t have to bring my living will with me
but just look it up on the Internet, which relieves me from any
problem.”
--Name withheld, Toms River, New Jersey
“As a single, senior
citizen—I feel the U.S. Living Will Registry is the only
responsible and convenient manner to make your wishes known
should you become ill or incapacitated due to an accident or
extreme medical circumstances.
Why put added
burden and stress on relatives or friends, who many times don’t
know what your wishes are should death or severe mental
deprivation occur?
Too many of us procrastinate about
our own true beliefs when the question of death or permanent
mental incapacitation is put before us!
There wasn’t much
you
could do about your birth—but you do have much to
say, and document, about your death!
As the sports slogan says, ‘Just Do It.’”
--Larry B., South Bend, Indiana
“I am very comforted to have a place to keep
my Final Requests and know that they may be retrieved when or if
needed. I am glad that
you provide a Nation Wide Service, as I travel frequently.
When I travel I always carry my Living Will and other
related documents with me.
Some states will not adhere to these documents when you are in
an accident in their state. But, they will contact the ‘Registry’ and then abide by your
decisions. So, it
is very beneficial to be registered with the U.S. Living Will
Registry. Everyone needs to have their wishes in writing.
If they want to be an organ donor or not; if they want to
be on life supports or not!
I highly recommend that everyone make their wishes known by
registering with this valuable service.
I have been at the death of my Grandmother as
she passed from this life to Heaven.
She did not want to be kept alive ‘on some old machine.’
She died with dignity at 94 years of age.
I was at the death of my Husband when he
passed from this life to Heaven.
Cancer took his life at age 50.
He signed a Living Will stating that he did not want to be
kept alive on machines. When the Lord calls you name, it is your time to be with him.
Yes, I wanted my Husband here with me but not kept alive
only by a machine.
My Mother had surgery last year. ON the fifth day of recovery she coded in my arms and was put
on machines in ICU for five days.
She had no idea what was going on or where
she was or even why she was there. After two weeks, when she had regained some control of
herself, she signed a Living Will.
She said that she never wants to be put through anything
like that again.
She is also registered with the U.S. Living Will Registry.
Since then most of my family has registered.
I have seen death in many forms and quality
of life is very important to me.
I do not want to be on machines just to keep my body alive.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to
voice my opinions and concern about the service you provide and
the experiences I have endured.”
Sincerely,
A Very Satisfied Registrant
--Name Withheld, Saginaw, Texas
“I believe the U.S. Living Will Registry is
very beneficial. It
gives the people you named extra confidence to follow your
wishes.
By having it on my driving license, my wishes would be
carried out even if I were away from home.”
--Michael N., New City, New York
“Great idea”
--Name Withheld, Waldo, Kansas
“It’s a great satisfaction to know the
information and my wishes are there for both doctors and the
hospital.”
--Name Withheld, Elmira Heights, New York
“Have not heard from anyone connected with
the registry. In
fact I forgot about it.
I feel that doing this while my faculties are up to parr is
important and it relieves my children of making decisions that I
might not like. I
think everyone should make use of the registry.”
--Clara B., Horseheads, New York
“It is a very secure feeling to have my
living will recorded on the U.S. Living Will Registry.
This service provides immediate access to this vital
information at anytime.”
--Name Withheld, Warsaw, North Carolina
“The U.S. Living Will Registry provides a
valuable service and I have encouraged friends to take advantage
of the service.
Through registration of my advance directive I have a sense of
security in knowing that my wishes will be honored where ever I
am when the need arises.”
--Name Withheld, North Carolina
“My mother had a living will and it was
wonderful to be able to follow her wishes as severe dementia
claimed her mind.”
--Sue W., LaGrange, North Carolina
“A very worthwhile exercise. I recommend my university undergraduate students to consider
registering, and provide them with an Internet link. I am an instructor in Medical Ethics at S.U.N.Y. Buffalo.”
--Robert W., Colden, New York
“It gives me peace of mind to know that my
life won’t be prolonged if there is no quality of life left.
Hopefully, my family will benefit financially rather than
draining all resources.”
--Name Withheld, Grifton, North Carolina
“I have a satisfied mind that when it’s time
to go I will be let go.
I do not fear the hereafter--it’s a natural part of life.”
--William T., Grifton, North Carolina
“I registered my advance directive because:
1)
I work in health care, and I am aware of what a valuable
resource this service is.
2)
In the unfortunate event of a catastrophic illness or
accident, I wanted to ensure that anyone who needs to knows of
my wishes. It’s
also comforting to know that if an event such as this should
happen away from home, the information is available nationwide.
I would encourage anyone who cares about
themselves, their families, and their fellow man to register
with the U.S. Living Will Registry.”
--Rebecca K., Elmira Heights, New York
“I did this so it takes the burden off my
children. They do
not have to worry about making any life altering decisions.
I also do not want any prolonged life that would not have
any quality.”
--Isabella B., Franklin Park, Illinois
“Do not want to live life and have no control
over.”
--Name Withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
“Excellent way to keep records safe.”
--Name Withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
“I register in advance my directive because
one never knows when we become incapacitated to give directives
to family members.
I’m glad I did so I feel very comfortable with my decision.
I highly recommend this to people of all ages.”
--Name Withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
“My husband—Wilson and I are well pleased to
know a hospital or Dr. can call you for Info. when we both reach
a point we are no longer able to give the info. needed.
We travel a lot, knowing your number is on our ID cards is
a great consolation to us.
Thank you.”
--Hattie W., Kinston, North Carolina
“I registered and advanced my directive
because my wishes are where I want them to be.
I’m glad I did that and encourage others to do so.
I think the U.S. Living Will Registry will provide a very
valuable service for me and be of much help to my family. I strongly encourage others to use the Registry.
Thank you very much.
In Christian Love,”
--Beulah N., Kinston, North Carolina
“I worked in a small ICU unit in the
hospital. I saw
people being kept alive only by machine.
I would not want that for myself.
If I can’t return to a normal full productive life, then it
isn’t worth living. I highly recommend to anyone who would not want to be kept
alive artificially to register their wishes while they can. I would not want to become no more than a vegetable lying in
a bed and I’m sure there are a lot more people who feel the same
way.”
--Name Withheld, LaGrange, North Carolina
“I believe this is a great service to people
that would like to make their request known.
I would highly suggest individuals to take advantage of
this service—it’s free—what could be better!
I have never been bothered, received mail; only for updates
on your living status.
Thanks for offering this service.”
--Lecia S., Columbia, South Carolina
“I would recommend everyone to have a living
will. Since signing
& getting mine, I have finally had a little peace of mind
knowing if it is honored I will not be hooked up to a lot of
machines and kept alive when I can no longer be in control of my
body functions. As
one gets older they have to think about this even if they do not
want to. Modern
medicine can now keep a person’s heart pumping indefinitely
though they otherwise would be dead.
It is my worst nightmare to be kept alive this way with
pumps/tubes & whatever & some one changing my diaper.
To me this would be HELL.
I would also advise younger people to do this because a car
accident or many other things can put them in the same place.
They have to think—Do I want to live like that?
What would it do to my family both mentally & financially &
do I want them to have to go thru this kind of pain?
We put sick animals out of their misery in this country yet we
let human beings suffer & humiliate themselves even when their
wishes are known.
Explain
that one.
Thank you for providing this service.”
--Lucille S., Dover, North Carolina
"This is the best thing I have seen for
access to my living will. Until now my doctor and wife had to
provide copies."
--David P., Crownsville, Maryland
"There is a sense of peace, knowing that the
Living Will is in place. This takes the burden off of my
family and at the same time, what I wish for myself will be
done."
--Barbara F., Juneau, Alaska
"Thank you for helping us to be protected, it
is nice to know that my rights are covered."
--William F., Juneau, Alaska
"I recommend every person sign an advance
directive (and have it registered with the U.S. Living Will
Registry) to ensure your wishes will be followed and
relieve your family of this burden."
--Name Withheld, Beckley, West Virginia
"I am so glad I found you. To have one
source for all medical personnel to get my information is a
blessing."
--Joan W., Edina, Minnesota
"My wife has been hospitalized 4x in the last
18 months. Peace of mind when doctors ask me does Kathleen
have a Living Will. When I say the living will is on file
at U.S. Living Will Registry--the doctors know of the
organization and say to me that was a smart thing to do.
Immediate access. Thanks again."
--Francis C., Durham, North Carolina
"Thanks to the registry I have peace of mind
when traveling. I know that any hospital in the country
can access my living will. Thank you for supplying this
valuable service."
--John K., Edgewater, New Jersey
"I'm glad this service exists as an assurance
that my advance will exists and will be readily accessible when
needed."
--Name Withheld, Alexandria, Virginia
"I think the U.S. Living Will Registry is an
excellent service, especially for travelers. Should one
become injured and/or incapacitated while away from home, the
Registry offers a vital link to your own wishes as to decisions
regarding your life and death, at the same time relieving loved
ones of that responsibility."
--Sally S., Juneau, Alaska
"This is the only way to have your wishes, in
regards to your life, completed as you requested at times you
cannot speak or write."
--Frederick S., West Windsor, New Jersey
"This is a much needed service. I teach
practical nursing and I inform my students of this valuable
service."
--Name Withheld, Wooster, Ohio
"If only everything else in my life could be
handled so efficiently..."
--Mimi S., Spring Valley, New York
"Registration with the U.S. Living Will
Registry provides peace of mind that we could not have otherwise
imagined. My U.S. Living Will Registry sticker is attached
to my health insurance ID card in my wallet to ensure that it
will be found/seen when needed."
--Charles B., Little Rock, Arkansas
"I'm very pleased with the service provided
by the U.S. Living Will Registry and highly recommend this
service. It gives me the assurance that my instructions
for medical care will be followed, and are easily available, in
the event of a medical emergency."
--Name Withheld, Towanda, Pennsylvania
"I am very glad that I have registered my
advance directive with U.S. Living Will Registry. I think
you provide a wonderful service for those of us who want the
medical community to respect our wishes.
I registered my advance directive after
spending time at the hospital with a dear aunt who had suffered
a massive stroke. I was so impressed that she had US LIV
WILL stickers on her license and health insurance cards.
These stickers allowed her children to direct her health care
according to her wishes. The doctor was very respectful of
her advance directive. Within a week of her death I called
1-800-LIV-WILL to request the paper work required to be in your
registry.
I thank all of you at U.S. Living Will
Registry who make it possible for those of us who wish to direct
our health care."
--Name Withheld, Slingerlands, New York
"I would recommend this service because it is
a way for me to exercise my individual rights and have control
of my future medical decisions."
--Name Withheld, Richmond, Virginia
"Took the stress out of getting my will in
order before surgery. One less thing for me to worry about
and it was all FREE!"
--Tawny R., Arlington, Texas
"The registry gives me peace of mind to know
that those who need to be contacted in case of my disability or
death will be contacted with information I have specifically
provided in my Living Trust."
--Name Withheld, Evanston, Illinois
"This registry gives us peace of mind.
Since my health care representative for our trust lives in
another state, this is sure to aid us in emergencies if anything
would happen while traveling. The registry's annual update
notification process is terrific. They ensure we're
up-to-date."
--Name Withheld, Noblesville, Indiana
"This is an invaluable service-especially if
one is traveling and away from friends and family when a mishap
occurs."
--Mark S., Eden Prairie, Minnesota
"Just knowing that when my time comes, I
won't have to be kept alive by machines & the family won't have
to make that decision, because I already have, that gives me a
great peace of mind."
--Arlene B., Kinston, North Carolina
"Our attorney recommended the Living Will
Registry. I'm glad we haven't had to use it, but it is
comforting to know it's available."
--Name Withheld, Burke, Virginia
"I feel much safer knowing my will has been
registered and is available to those who might need it.
Other than renewing (no charge) my registration there is nothing
else to do and no one to bother me. I think it's great
that this service is available."
--Carla B., Miami, Florida
"I registered so in the event the need arose
when I was away from my home area my advance directive could be
accessed. I had my local Emergency Room place a "test
call" and it worked."
--Chester S., Wausau, Wisconsin
"I am most grateful for this service.
As a health care professional, I am very familiar with the
difficulty of presenting an advance directive at the time of
admission to an acute care facility. Making this most
important document, i.e. advance directive, available when you
are non-decisional assures that your wishes are honored, as well
as greatly assisting your health care representatives with the
written support needed in backing-up the medical decision they
make on your behalf. Finally, less you have your advance
directive tattooed on your chest, I travel with the peace of
mind that my medical wishes are made known if I should become
seriously ill away from home."
--Lawrence H., Hoffman Estates, Illinois
"When my mother was ill, my father suppressed
her living will and made health care choices counter to her
wishes. I don't want him to do that to me."
--Name Withheld, Douglas, Arkansas
"The U.S. Living Will Registry provides a
valuable service. It gives me peace of mind knowing that
my living will is registered and that my wishes will be carried
out when I die. I also registered my will with the U.S.
Living Will Registry. Even though I'm not that old, it was
important to me to take care of these matters now instead of
someone having to deal with it when I die."
--Name Withheld, Tulsa, Oklahoma
"Stickers on drivers license is best way to
inform as to location and content of living will."
--David P., Punta Gorda, Florida
"A vital service provided by an excellent
organization."
--Eric A., Wappingers Falls, New York
"I registered because I don't want any
"surprises" for my family to deal with if I become
incapacitated. My family members all have copies of my
living will but probably don't know where they are. With
the U.S. Living Will Registry I have additional comfort that my
wishes will be heeded."
--Patricia M., Solon, Ohio
"I would highly recommend the U.S. Living
Will Registry to others due to the fact that it will take
unnecessary stress and guilt off of my loved ones as to whether
or not I should be put on life support and if so for how long.
It also gives me the peace of mind in knowing
that my wishes have been expressed and will be honored.
I think the U.S. Living Will Registry
provides a very valuable service and am thankful that I have the
final say through someone I know I can trust rather than leave
the decision up to someone else who may not honor my wishes and
let me leave with dignity."
--Danny Lee P., Moneta, Virginia
"Gives your family peace of mind."
--Stephanie F., Springfield, Virginia
"My attorney recommended the U.S. Living Will
Registry. After he explained it to me, it seemed like one
of those 'Gosh. Now why didn't I think of that' ideas."
--Sally Z., Athens, Ohio
"Having the U.S. Living Will Registry as part
of my estate plans is wonderful peace of mind. I am also
very appreciative for the automatic annual renewal of
registration in order to keep my file up to date. It is
one less thing to worry about in our hectic lives!"
--Name Withheld, Oak Hill, Virginia
"Having a Living Will gives me peace of mind
because it clearly tells my children what my wishes are if I
become seriously ill and not able to communicate how I wish to
die. My husband had a severe heart attack in 2000 and his
living will gave us the strength and courage to allow him to
pass peacefully and with dignity. Because his doctors had
a copy, they gave us full cooperation in not putting him on life
support."
--Ann D., Westwood, New Jersey
"The U.S. Living Will Registry provides a
very useful and unique service."
--Name Withheld, Sand Gap, Kentucky
"My husband and I love the living will
registry. It's easy to start and we don't have to remember
to keep it current/updated because of the yearly reminders.
It's nice to have one less thing to worry about but yet it is a
very important and vital thing to take care of. It's also
wonderful that something so important is free to people.
Thank you so much for your service."
--Donna N., West Allis, Wisconsin
"Life should be more than subsistence.
Life should be beautiful. And I registered with the U.S.
Living Will Registry to live life on those terms."
--Chad D., Los Angeles, California
"A very easy way to access important
documents at stressful times."
--Albert L., Scottsmoor, Florida
"July and August of 2001, I had 2 major
surgeries. Not knowing the outcome of either one, I
prepared all of my needed documentation, one of which was
registering with the U.S. Living Will Registry. My
surgeons as well as the hospital were given a copy. I have
passed the information along to friends and family and as of
2002 part of my family has also registered with you. It
will make the burden for my family easier in the event something
may happen. Thank you for your service."
--Karen S., Tucson, Arizona
"My husband passed on 12-01-01 and he was
cremated. It was so nice to have everything taken care of.
People we dealt with as a family were very kind and
compassionate. Thank you."
--Shirley O., Ellenton, Florida
"This way my wishes will be known and no one
will have to guess. The choice is mine--no fighting about
it."
--Name Withheld, Fort Worth, Texas
"Everyone should be listed with U.S. Living
Will Registry--as it reflects your wishes should you die,
or be in an accident, where you are not able to respond to
treatment. It cuts through all the "red tape" and legal
hassles that will arise if you don't have a living
will registered! And one that's accessible!
One call, by a doctor or law enforcement agency to the
Registry will save countless hours of waiting; both for medical
staff, friends and relatives, thus saving precious time--time
that
could even save your life! So do it!"
--Name Withheld, South Bend, Indiana
"I am so glad my attorney told me about the
living will registry. It is a comfort to know that any
medical care provider has immediate access to my living will."
--Name Withheld, Yakima, Washington
"I appreciate the convenience of electronic
access to my emergency and end-of-life documents, relieving me
of the need to pack copies of my wishes prior to each trip I
take and relieving luggage weight on overseas trips."
--Nancy D., Bradenton, Florida
"Thankfully I haven't had to use this yet,
but it's comforting to know it'll be here when I need it."
--Catherine T., S. Yarmouth, Massachusetts
"I think the U.S. Living Will Registry
provides a valuable service. My registration with them
allows health care professionals access to my wishes should I be
injured and not able to voice my decisions for health care.
I have recommended this service to both
family and friends, as well as to those with whom I have had
only a casual contact."
--Name Withheld, Schuylkill Haven,
Pennsylvania
"Thank you, Living Will Registry for
providing a valuable and much needed service. It's a no
brainer: everyone should sign up. We have only to
gain from it. Thanks."
--Amy C., San Francisco, California
"I feel much more safe and secure knowing
U.S. Living Will Registry has my records on my wishes,
ready and available for physicians. In case of an
emergency I want my doctors to have all the information on me
that they might need. With the U.S. Living Will Registry,
I know that is possible. Thank you, Living Will Registry."
--Ann Z., Dallas, Texas
"The U.S. Living Will Registry is a source of
comfort to my wife to my son and to me. I have seen
situations where an advance directive before a terminal illness
would have been so helpful to both the family and to medical
personnel. We sincerely appreciate the service that the
Registry provides. I recommend the services of the
Registry to everyone."
--Baird B., Boone, North Carolina
"Living Will has given me peace of mind.
Although none of us really wants to die...we also know that it
is inevitable! It's nice to know that our wishes will be
known and followed! I, for one, have already talked to my
daughters and told them of my wishes and sent them both copies
of my will. I also told them that I have taken that
final decision away from them. There will be no guilt
feelings! I have already made the decisions!
So thank you Living Will...when the time
comes, I'm sure my family will have enough on their minds
without worrying about my will!"
--Tony S., Winnemucca, Nevada
"Personally, the Living Will Registry is a
great way to remove the burden from family when an unfortunate
crisis occurs. I'm glad to know that my wishes will be
carried out without question."
--Kathy K., Olmsted Falls, Ohio
"I registered my advance directive with the
U.S. Living Will Registry so that it can be readily and easily
provided and my wishes be made quickly known to the concerned
health care provider(s) in the unfortunate event that it becomes
necessary. There is no point in making a living will if it
is not available and accessible to those health care providers
when needed.
I am glad I registered in order to have my
wishes made known and carried out when necessary. The U.S.
Living Will Registry was recommended to me by the attorney who
drew up my will and my advance directive. I presume that
the attorney would not have recommended them if they did not
provide a valuable service well. So far I have not become
aware of any reasons to think otherwise."
--Name Withheld, New York, New York
"I filed with your Registry for several vital
reasons:
1) Peace of mind (for myself, family & my partner)
2) To ensure that my directions were done
3) Because it's the least I could do for the ones I love."
--Earnest M., Kansas City, Kansas
"Once I was talking to a lady about the sick.
This person said how the one that was sick had some form of
paper that stated what was not to be done in her illness.
I learned that it was called a Living Will. I looked into
getting information because I wanted a Living Will.
My friend took care of everything (all paper
work) and mailed out to me to get it documented. Yes, I
believe your services are valuable and helpful, needful.
Nevertheless, I have not had the medical need.
Yes, I'm very glad I have the U.S. Living
Will Registry, because I feel protected against getting any
treatment not approved by me in case of emergency.
I surely have told others and my Will is
posted on the visable wall to their right as they (anyone)
enters my home.
I feel secure with the U.S. Living Will
Registry information in my wallet on the driver's license and
Medicare card.
Thanks Sincerely,"
--Name Withheld, Gloucester County, New
Jersey
"I recently was admitted to a heart hospital.
Having my advanced directive registered with the U.S. Living
Will Registry made my admission process smoother and quicker.
I also feel confident that the sticker on my health care card
will help everyone involved if and when I need to use my
advanced directive."
--Danialle R., Vermillion, South Dakota
"The Living Will Registry allows me to notify
providers of my wishes and to be nationally accessible. It
also allows my family one number to call in time of need.
Thanks for the service."
--Karen G., Dallas, Texas
"We were driving to Colorado from our home
and went through South Dakota to visit the Badlands and Mount
Rushmore. I got an infection and was looking for treatment
on the weekend in Rapid City, SD. The only facility
available was a Regional Medical Center/Hospital. As I was
checking in, they asked for my Medical Insurance Card, I gave it
to the woman, who started to transcribe the information from it,
and noticed the sticker on the card "I'm Registered, U.S. Living
Will Registry 1-800-LIV-WILL" and asked me about the sticker.
I explained that if I was incapacitated, or they needed to know
the contents of my living will, they could call the number and
my advance directive would be faxed to them. She was
excited and called over the two other people working in the same
area to show them, and asked how I had found out about the
Registry. I told them our lawyer registered us when he put
together our living trust.
It pointed out for me that the sticker is
noticed, now I only have to get some more stickers since moving
them from one insurance card to another causes them to get beat
up pretty bad."
--James W., Kenosha, Wisconsin
"How wonderful that some care enough to
operate the living will registry! I now have complete
peace of mind regarding the end of my life. I have
relieved my loved ones of heartbreaking decisions under great
emotional stress. I urge everyone to use the living will
registry & the valuable services offered."
--Karen S., Eaton, Ohio
"Registration is fast, easy and brings the
peace of mind knowing it can be accessed anywhere. The
U.S. Living Will Registry is something everyone should
consider."
--Name Withheld, Ingleside, Illinois
"I registered because I was pregnant and due
to deliver in a Lovelace Hospital and wanted to give input to
possible treatment, if necessary.
Because I have not had the chance to put the
advance directive into specific use I cannot speak to its value
for others, but I am glad to have access to such a service
should I need it."
--Dory L., Albuquerque, New Mexico
"I registered with the U.S. Living Will
Registry for peace of mind. In the event I am unable to
speak for myself, I know my wishes will be honored. I
didn't want my husband or children to be faced with any
difficult and emotional decision without knowing how I would
handle such situations. I think this is an extremely
valuable service which should be used by everyone!"
--Pamela H., Orland, Florida
"Your website features a lot of information
that's easy to access. You offer a convenient and
invaluable service to the public and even provide state specific
forms. Thank you for providing all of it for FREE!
Also, your website was conveniently on the first page of a
google.com search for 'living will'."
--An N., Chicago, Illinois
"It is a big relief to know this information
is available in an emergency if I am not near my home hospital
or doctor."
--Rena P., Chicago, Illinois
"Excellent yearly reminder to keep
information up to date. Sure gives me peace of mind."
--Name Withheld, Noblesville, Indiana
"I manage 2 critical care units--I know first
hand how difficult it is to obtain copies of patient's wishes.
This service gives the ultimate decision to have their wishes
known to the writer. It relieves the family/friends from
the burden of locating it at what is many times a most difficult
period. Thank you for giving me the peace of mind this
service provides."
--Elizabeth P., Haskell, New Jersey
"Our attorney informed us of the Living Will
Registry when we were drawing up wills and a trust agreement.
I think this is a very valuable service. Our children will
only need tell any health care provider that an advance
directive is on file. They will not have to rummage
through papers to find the directive in case it is needed.
This brings a great deal of peace of mind and I recommend your
service to anyone filling out an advance directive."
--Virginia M., Manassas, Virginia
"I registered because my mother is a nurse in
a hospital and said she sees a lot of patients who come in
without any kind of will. If the patient should go into a
coma or something else--it leaves the family turned around in
what to do. I never understood the importance of having
any kind of will until I had a child of my own."
--Tammy D., Woodbridge, Virginia
"We travel frequently since retiring and were
always concerned how our medical needs would be met in the event
of accident or illness. It is less worrisome knowing our
desires for a living will is registered and hospitals have
access to that info."
--Name withheld, Yelm, Washington
"I was recently in the hospital for surgery.
Prior to my admission I was asked for a copy of my advanced
directive. I was able to provide them with a copy without
a problem."
--Brenda B., Burke, Virginia
"Living Will Registry is the best way to
secure a will. It's a safe protected location where
families can find it quickly and easily. The regular
reminders keep key contacts up to date and you can re-order
stickers to update your driver's license with Living Will
contact numbers."
--Stephanie F., Springfield, Virginia
"A valuable service which I have recommended
to family and friends."
--Michael M., Reston, Virginia
"I did this to help my family. The
family will be in enough sadness and pain if I get to this point
and they would not want to do anything. I just don't want
them to have to decide this.
I'm very glad I did this.
I think it is great that your provide this
service. I think it is great that you send out the little
stickers to put on your insurance card and your license.
Everyone should do this so the family will
not have this to worry about."
--Name withheld, Cooleemee, North Carolina
"I registered my advance directive with U.S.
Living Will Registry upon the advice from my attorney."
--Denise G., Avon, Indiana
"The U.S. Living Will Registry gives you and
your family peace of mind that your wishes are known and will be
carried out. This is so important you should not wait one
more day."
--Karen C., Rio Rancho, New Mexico
"It feels good to have taken the time to
think through and write down my most likely preferences for end
of life decisions. It feels good to know that I've shared
those preferences with my loved ones and that they understand
them. Finally, it feels good to know that my preferences
are filed with the Living Will Registry, and that health care
providers can access them when they are needed."
--Philip C.
"I registered my advance directives with the
U.S. Living Will Registry to ensure that a hospital follows my
wishes because of 2 possible complications:
1. As a lesbian, I worry that a
hospital will not allow my life-partner to make decisions for me
even though she has been given as much legal standing as
possible.
2. No next of kin lives near me plus I
travel a great deal therefore the Registry could assist a
hospital in making a decision if the hospital could not contact
my life-partner or a family member in a timely manner.
I feel a sense of relief in knowing that my
advance directives can be followed even though I, my
life-partner, or family member may not be able to communicate my
wishes to a hospital. I find this service valuable and
highly recommend it to others."
--Name withheld, New York City, New York
"After watching friends and relatives suffer
needlessly I can now rest a little easier after signing up with
the registry."
--Janice O., Cedaredge, Colorado
"The U.S. Living Will Registry gives me peace
of mind. As a nurse, I have often seen the pain and
confusion that occur when a loved one is ill and unable to make
decisions. Frequently family members are torn and argue
over what to do. The Registry records my wishes and since
my family lives out of state, I know wherever I am, and whatever
happens, my wishes will be made known."
--Christine P., Indianapolis, Indiana
"I registered a directive because I know my
family won't be able to carry out my wishes. My biggest
fear is to be trapped in my body and I can't count on others to
make such a painful decision for me at a time like that. I
do not know if these documents will stand up in court, but I
hope they do. The U.S. Living Will Registry makes it very
easy to set up your living will. I keep the sticker on my
license and I can only hope everyone follows my instructions."
--Geraldine F., Rockland, Massachusetts
"Yes, I feel it's a good thing to have a
Living Will. It is comforting to know I made this decision
myself and my family doesn't have to feel burdened with this
responsibility."
--Name withheld, Closter, New Jersey
"I recommend this service because it provides
an independent and easily accessible record of my living will."
--James T., Alexandria, Virginia
"I want my wishes to be carried out should
the opportunity ever present itself. This U.S. Living Will
Registry is a quick and useful way to get one's message to the
person(s) responsible to carry out one's desires. It will
eliminate the family from having to make decisions."
--Name withheld, Dobson, North Carolina
"I like knowing that I can travel and my
living will is available should it be needed. It's just
one thing I don't have to remember to put in my suitcase."
--Charlene M., Bloomington, Indiana
"I am a registered nurse and work in an
emergency department. I have seen first hand how difficult
it is to make the decision to donate organs of a loved one.
It can give such a good feeling knowing that a loved one goes on
living and helping others after death. It is so much
easier if a person has made this decision known to their loved
ones before this difficult decision must be made."
--Carolann S., Medina, Texas
"It's the peace of mind that you provide.
It provides a service that allows me not to have to worry about
while fighting the battle against cancer."
--Name withheld, Sparta, New Jersey
"Being registered with Living Will gives me
confidence that my wishes will be followed in the event of an
emergency. I believe this will be a help and comfort to my
family at a time when decisions for them could be difficult."
--Name withheld, Pound Ridge, New York
"It is important to have a living will.
Anyone who finds themselves going to a hospital will be asked to
provide one. Usually their loved ones must secure it and
bring it to the hospital. This registry helps alleviate
the need to get this document at a stressful time and allows you
and your loved ones to think about and address other matters.
It is a wonderful service."
--Name withheld, Pembroke Pines, Florida
"Living Will Registry eliminates loved ones
having to make a guilt-ridden decision during grieving."
--Charles B., Little Rock, Arkansas
"I think this is great that we are able to do
all of this in one spot, and for free. This is a great
organization."
--Kimberly B., Billingsport, New Jersey
"It gives me comfort to know my well thought
out last wishes concerning my health and welfare will be
available to those providing services when or if I should ever
need them. As life continues to show us, there is a real
possibility such needs will need to be met.
By using this valued service the U.S. Living
Will Registry offers, I also hope to make decisions on my behalf
easier for those who must deal with them. I do, and have,
recommended this service to family, friends, and acquaintances."
--Name withheld, Schuylkill Haven,
Pennsylvania
"I have given a copy of my living will to all
of my children and my husband. I think it is of the utmost
importance that everyone close to me knows what I want.
This registry now lets all of our health care providers know
also. My mind is at ease."
--Name withheld, Stanley, North Carolina
"I was very interested in being able to make
my wishes known concerning being kept alive by artificial means,
when most reasonable hope of a recovery was determined. I
didn't want family to have to be faced with those kind of
decisions at a bad time. I had an advanced health care
directive since 1996, but when we moved to another state, I
found out I had to do it again there. That's when I found
out about the U.S. Living Will Registry. I was glad to
enter the registry for the security and convenience of knowing
that the people/agencies who would need my information would
have easy access to it."
--Linda R., Holland, Massachusetts
"This is a wise choice as a backup to your
attorney."
--Name withheld, Noblesville, Indiana
"I find it such a relief, and I do believe a
relief to my loved ones also, that no one has to take the
responsibility for decisions, especially such irrevocable
decisions, that affect my life. The decisions have already
been made--by ME! So, I not only put my relatives minds at
ease--but more importantly--my own mind at ease--knowing that
I--ME--have already made the decisions!
There will be no feelings of guilt, only
following the decisions that I myself made and want carried out!
I always wondered if my wishes would be
carried out as I wanted them! You get - yes,
of course I will - but still wonder - "when the time comes-will
they honor their promises to me?"
So, I put my mind at ease, knowing that my
wishes are on record - Made by Me!
Thank you U.S. Living Will Registry!"
--Tony S., Winnemucca, Nevada
"I registered with the U.S. Living Will
Registry as soon as I learned of it. I am disabled, live
alone & don't really know anyone in my area. I have
parents but did not want them to have any rights over me in
emergencies, etc. I wanted my son to have complete control
cut and dried, legally. Now he does and I finally have
peace of mind, I don't have to worry or doubt that what I want,
won't happen. My relief at knowing this is beyond words.
Thank you."
--Diana R., Prescott Valley, Arizona
"I appreciate you taking the time to ask me
if I have any comments, too often the people directly involved
are forgotten and the "experts" seem to be the only people whose
opinion matters.
I would like to see this service added to the
State of Alaska Department of Motor Vehicle, Driver's license
and Vehicle registration procedures. We have an organ
donor procedure that is discussed with every person who applies
for his/her driver's license, why not add the living will
registry also? This service would be great and would keep
the government out of a person's life. I don't want the
State of Alaska involved in my most private directives, I don't
want Alaska involved like Florida has done recently.
As a police officer it would be great to have
the knowledge of a living will attached to a person's vehicle
registration, I have been to thousands of serious auto accidents
and if I had knowledge of a possible living will it would be
great to pass this information on to the ER doctors, etc.
The driver's license tags are great however many times we cannot
find any identification on a driver or passenger and if the
information was attached to the DMV motor vehicle registration,
I think that law enforcement would be very pleased to pass this
information on."
--B.C.M., Skagway Police Department, Skagway,
Alaska
"U.S. Living Will Registry provides a prompt
and accurate point of reference in the event it is
needed--especially while family is in a state of confusion."
--Name withheld, Prescott, Arizona
"I registered my advanced directive so that
there would be a sure way to have my wishes available at any
time should it be needed.
I feel confident that I made a wise choice in
having it registered and feel it is a valuable and important
service. I have told many friends about the registry and
encouraged them to use it."
--Name withheld, Brick, New Jersey
"My wife and I are delighted that we
registered our living will documents with U.S. Living Will
Registry. It is a comforting feeling to know that in an
emergency our desires for emergency care are registered with
access to any authorized person(s).
The stickers identifying us as registered
with U.S.L.W.R. are on all legal identification so as to ensure
notification of documents that are registered with you.
I appreciate your annual request for updating
our living will registered with you. I recommend this
registry be done by everyone."
--Name withheld, St. Pete, Florida
"With families living far from each other it
may be difficult for a relative to get to the hospital in time.
And although your family and partner are close, what if
something happens and you can't make your wishes known?
Living will registry can help in both cases."
--Name withheld, Holliston, Massachusetts
"We think it's extremely important to have
your wishes known when you are unable to speak for yourself.
My mother had a living will and it was useful at the end of her
life--as she was suffering and could not speak. You
definitely provide a useful service and I have recommended it to
others. Thank you!"
--Wayne H., Phoenix, Arizona
"It is essential for everyone to have a
living will to make sure one's final wishes are followed.
By having a living will, you save your loved ones from making
agonizing decisions during a most emotional and traumatic time.
The living wills do not take a lot of time to do and are so very
important to have."
--Laura T., Shakopee, Minnesota
"I registered with U.S. Living Will Registry
because I wanted to be sure that any medical personnel who
needed my wants and wishes be able to obtain it easily and
readily. Myself being a singer person I have no one who
would care enough to see that this is done. I feel they
are providing a very valuable service to individuals like
myself. I have and will continue to recommend it to others
who are preparing a living will."
--Name withheld, Bevlaville, North Carolina
"I feel that if this service is available to
doctors, it may one day save my life if they have access to all
the information about my health and wishes wherever I may be.
Having this service takes some of the burden
of having to provide information off my children at a time when
they may not want to cope with it."
--Name withheld, Wathaw, North Carolina
"Registering an advance directive has
provided me with a sense of peace that such a service exists.
My family and friends as well as the family and friends of
others have an easy to access vehicle which provides direction
in writing as to medical administration. I believe this is
important in that the advance directive provides: 1) a
comfort level for others to make sure the medical system is able
to respond because the wishes are documented; and 2) a legal
document that protects everyone from unnecessary discussion
and/or litigation."
--Anita T., Boston, Massachusetts
"The U.S. Living Will Registry is a form of
insurance that my wishes will be known. Personal and
family copies are important but the Registry is there under any
circumstances. Having such important documents readily
available gives me peace of mind. This is an invaluable
service."
--Susan L., Cambridge, Massachusetts
"I believe the U.S. Living Will Registry is a
very important organization in that it eliminates loved ones
from being forced into a life/death decision.
It also gives me a certain comfort knowing
that in a time when I am unable to make a decision for myself,
my previous directive will be honored and my directives will be
regarded and respected as if I was making the decision at the
time it is required."
--Jo C., Elmwood Park, New Jersey
"As a member of the health care industry, I
believe everyone should have a living will and use the U.S.
Living Will Registry so that at any time a hospital, anywhere in
the country, can obtain my information in case of a medical
need. As President of a Health Care System, I know
everyone should have a "Living Will".
--Louis Y., Englewood Cliffs, New Jersey
"A fast and convenient way to maintain vital
information. Annual update couldn't be easier. Can't
believe it's free!"
--Robert B., New York, New York
"Creating my living will and joining the
registry was part of my overall need to be proactive about my
estate, including creating a will & working with financial
planners. This, in light of divorce. I wanted to
take care of my children in this way, by anticipating any
situation they may meet regarding their single parent. As
a young woman, I feel proud & wise for having tended to the
business of being an adult."
--Carolyn S., Syosset, New York
"I would strongly recommend the U.S. Living
Will Registry for the service it provides to make available to
any health care provider a copy of our living wills. Your
valuable free service is a plus. We especially appreciate
your yearly updating of pertinent information."
--Name Withheld, Jonestown, Pennsylvania
"Peace of mind--to me and my family.
Thank you."
--Dorothy A., Fort Lee, New Jersey
"'I want to thank the staff at the U.S.
Living Will Registry for their professional follow-up annually.
Recently a patient at a hospital where I
worked was dying. The hospital medical records department
couldn't find his original advanced directive. However,
the physician was able to get a faxed copy immediately from the
U.S. Living Will Registry. Thank you."
--Name Withheld, Vermillion, South Dakota
"I find it very convenient to advise medical
personnel that my living will is on file and can be accessed
from anywhere at anytime. This makes it unnecessary to
have multiple copies to give doctors and hospitals. I
recommend the Registry to friends and relatives."
--Dorothy D., Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
" I think you provide a real service for me.
If I were to be incapacitated I know my wishes would be carried
out with dispatch. Thank you!"
--Robert M., Palmyra, Virginia
"We registered with U.S. Living Will Registry
because it is much more convenient than having to produce a copy
of the Living Will under emergency situations.
Since registration, the online download
capability has been used in several instances and provided all
the required information. Registration is one of the
smartest things I did. The Registry provides an invaluable
service to all those who are participating and I heartily
recommend registration to everyone."
--Michael D., Wayne, New Jersey
"Registering with the U.S. Living Will
Registry will give my family the peace of mind knowing what I
wanted. More so than just words, taking the steps to
register gives a definite answer of my wish.
I like the ease of updating each year and
peace of mind that the Registry gives.
I recommend it to all my family and friends."
--Joyce W., Mobile, Alabama
"It is very convenient not to have to carry
your Living Will especially when you unexpectedly need it."
--Name Withheld, Park Ridge, New Jersey
"I registered with U.S. Living Will Registry
because I had heard of such service that was offered. It
is a good thing indeed to be registered with an advance
directive, because if there are special wishes and instructions
in case of illness with lack of communication, when medical team
arrive, the labels on proper ID that one have on them
will show who to contact for you Living Will instructions.
I'm very glad that I registered my advance
directive. The U.S. Living Will Registry provides a great,
valuable and prompt service. Someone commented to me of
their promptness and it's all free. Yes, I tell others.
People that live alone with allergies, etc., should have this
service. Be sure to get the right Registry. U.S.
Living Will Registry."
--Otis B., Clarksboro, New Jersey
"The USLWR is a wonderful service to the
community. No longer do we have to worry about "carrying
around" our current Advance Directive & emergency contact
information.
If you're not sure about completing an
Advance Directive, you only need to read about the Karen Ann
Quinlan case and others like it to realize just how important
the document can be. Whether you're 18 or 85, it's
important to express your wishes, either through a health care
proxy or written directive. Have those conversations with
your loved ones. If they are ever put in the situation
where decisions need to be made on your behalf, they'll have
peace of mind knowing that they did what you would have wanted.
It's as much for them, as it is for you.
The USLWR contacts us once a year to
verify/update our information so we know that they have the most
current information. This gives us peace of mind.
Thank you."
--Donald B., Mine Hill, New Jersey
"Excellent program"
--Robert H., Palm Harbor, Florida
"I just went through this with my sister, her
siblings wished she had a living will--which would have been
much easier for them to make a very difficult decision."
--Wilmer W., Russell, Kansas
"It's comforting to know that my loved ones
won't have to face a serious decision, thanks to the U.S. Living
Will Registry."
--Edward B., New York, New York
"I would recommend this service to others.
If more people prepared their advance directive and then
registered it, much unnecessary suffering would be avoided.
Often without access to an advance directive
both health care providers and the family are set up for
conflict."
--Delmar F., Tinton Falls, New Jersey
"I got to know about the Living Will Registry
through a local hospital. It is a great service and it's
free. Thank you."
--Marianne P., Leonia, New Jersey
"I am glad I have been listed with the U.S.
Living Will Registry. Now my end of life wishes can be
obtained wherever I go in the U.S.."
--Name withheld, Westwood, New Jersey
"As a registered nurse working in an acute
care hospital I felt it was very important to have my wishes
concerning my end-of-life decisions upheld.
I am not afraid to die, but I would like to
die with dignity. Also, I want my family to be free of
guilt or remorse over my way of exiting this world. I
chose how I wanted to live and chose how I would like to die:
pain free but without other artificial means of life support."
--Name withheld, Woodcliff Lake, New Jersey
"Thank God for the living will registry.
It saves people from unwanted procedures and makes it easier for
relatives who don't have to struggle with too many decisions."
--Marie K., Westwood, New Jersey
"My experience with your registry has been
positive. Whenever we utilized your service at the
hospital we received immediate results. It is a great
patient satisfier."
--Name withheld, Englewood, New Jersey
"I registered with the U.S. Living Will
Registry for peace of mind for myself and family. If an
accident were to occur which left me unable to speak for myself,
I wouldn't want my family to undergo the considerable stress and
possible guilt about any decisions which would be need to be
made. By having a living will, those decisions will
already have been made...by myself."
--Pamela H., Orlando, Florida
"During a recent emergency room admission, my
inability to speak was aided by the label affixed to my health
insurance card regarding my advanced directive. Very
helpful."
--Patricia B., Mahwah, New Jersey
"I registered with the U.S. Living Will
Registry for several reasons. First having an advance
directive is an important decision for all of us. Second I
travel away from home regularly and do not want the
responsibility of carrying a copy of my advance directive with
me at all times. The U.S. Living Will Registry provides me
with the security that my choices can be accessed at any time
and any place; giving the medical staff that is treating me the
information they need to provide appropriate medical care.
As a medical social worker employed by an
acute health care facility, I have first hand knowledge of the
importance of being properly prepared to make your own medical
decisions. I not only have my advance directive
registered, I teach patients on a regular basis of the benefits
of this service."
--Dianne W., Clear Lake, Iowa
"I have been very pleased with the Registry
services. I especially like the fact that they remind me
to up-date phone numbers etc. each year. My 82 year old
mother is also registered and been well pleased. I would
recommend that everyone should register with them to have the
peace of mind that we now have."
--Name withheld, Canyon, Texas
"I work in one of the busiest ERs in the
state of Washington. Upon admitting, we ask each
patient/family if they have a living will. This
documentation stays on their record for present or future
available info for emergent situations. When we learn they
are registered with the U.S. Living Will Registry, we know they
are prepared for the unknown future we all face."
--Maureen M., Kent, Washington
"I believe the U.S. Living Will Registry
provides a valuable service by giving me peace of mind. I
know that if something were to happen to me, my wishes would be
carried out."
--Name withheld, Pleasant Prairie, Wisconsin
"After having to make the decision to
withdraw life support on my father's behalf (where he had left
no directives), and in view of the Terry Schiavo case which has
drawn national attention, I felt compelled to register my Living
Will so that none of my family members and, least of all, the
courts, would have to intercede on my behalf. My wishes
are clearly spelled out and reason will prevail when emotions
are at their peak.
Thanks for making this Registry available."
--Mary R., Lutz, Florida
"I registered my advance directive for legal,
professional & personal safety. The peace of mind is
immeasurable & invaluable. I cannot believe the Living
Will Registry is a free service but I'm thankful it is. I
urge everyone to register their advance directives for their
protection & their family's benefit."
--Karen S., Eaton, Ohio
"With my advanced directive registered with
the U.S. Living Will Registry, I know my wishes will be carried
to my satisfaction, not the wishes of someone else."
Steven S., Brownsburg, Indiana
"The living will is one less thing to worry
about as we get older. I am proud that both my husband and
I did this. Thank you."
--Barbara G.
"This is a wonderful service! Thank
you!"
--Name withheld, Oak Lawn, Illinois
"My husband and I have witnessed older people
within our circle of acquaintance suffer a lingering death
because of selfish, albeit well-intentioned, relatives who wish
to keep them alive; whatever the cost in medical expenses, or
emotional devastation-or absence of hope.
We are resolute in our determination to
prevent this from happening to either of us, and have registered
our living wills to assure it doesn't.
Because of the tragedies we've witnessed,
I've encouraged our friends to prepare a living will, and then
avail themselves of the valuable service provided by the U.S.
Living Will Registry."
--Margit E., Mine Hill, New Jersey
"It is good to know that my wishes will be
carried out, that someone else will not have to make a decision
for me.
There are some people who could make a life
or death decision for someone else, therefore by having a Living
Will no one will be put under stress to do so.
I think the "U.S. Living Will Registry" does
a valuable service and I highly recommend others do so."
--Lucy W., Hillsdale, New Jersey
"I made a living will to:
Spare me needless suffering
Spare my family needless suffering
Keep Medicare solvent
Keep AARP insurance solvent"
--Name withheld, Woodcliff Lake, New Jersey
"My local hospital would not accept a copy of
my advance directive. The U.S. Living Will Registry not
only solved my local problem, but now my advance directive will
be available very quickly to any of my health care providers who
request a copy in the future.
In a crisis situation, I feel this is a much
more dependable way of ensuring a copy of my directive is
available to a health care provider."
--Don S., Montvale, New Jersey
"The U.S. Living Will Registry provides a
good service. I highly recommend my friends & relatives to
have this. It is a pleasure to have this updated every
year without my worrying when the year is up and will knowingly
know that my instructions will be carried thru, without having
to have someone make a decision they don't want to & have on
their mind."
--Name Withheld, Spring Valley, New York
"I believe having a living will is a very
nice thing to have. If something happens to me and I
cannot sign my name or have my say as to what is done for me if
I am in a hospital it gives my family the right to sign for me.
I want to be an organ donor and my family is
also aware of that. I strongly suggest everyone sign up
for the living will registry.
Thank you for offering this service."
--Christine S., Lowman, New York
"It is nice to know that my wishes are in
writing for my children to refer to in the event of my sudden
death. That there will be no argument as to my wishes."
--Clara B., Horseheads, New York
"I am pleased to have been informed of this
opportunity to express my wishes, that should I be or my family
faced with the decision of doctors not to use any drastic
methods to sustain my life. Hopefully just to me make
comfortable and not to resuscitate."
--Velma M., Hewitt, New Jersey
"I believe this is a wonderful service, being
able to make decisions about my health care myself and no burden
to others to do it. The labels are of great help!
Keep up the excellent work. Thank you, God Bless!"
--Thomas O., Swedesboro, New Jersey
"I registered to take advantage of the unique
service that you provide. I am very pleased with the
service.
The U.S. Living Will Registry offers an
invaluable service and I would highly recommend to others to
register their advance directives with the Registry."
--William D., Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
"When I saw what my husband went through
trying to deal with the decisions for his mother, I didn't want
that for my children. That was when I decided to make out
a living will.
When I found out that I could register my
advanced directive with your Registry, I felt even more assured
that my wishes would be carried out exactly the way I want it,
and without putting the burden of making any of the decisions on
my children.
I fee that the U.S. Living Will Registry
provides a great service, so much so, I just recommended that my
daughter, who just made one out, file a copy of her living will
with your registry as well. Thank you."
--Leonilda H., Union Beach, New Jersey
"I believe the registry is performing a
valuable service by seeing to it that the wishes of the patient
are carried out. I would wholeheartedly recommend it to
everyone."
--Name Withheld, Manassas, Virginia
"We were made aware of the Living Will
Registry by the hospital when my husband was admitted for a
serious operation. As we did have living wills, we thought
this was a great idea.
At a later date, my husband was admitted to
the hospital thru the emergency room at midnite, the "stickers"
we were sent to be placed on our insurance cards and driver
licenses was a great time saver.
Great job--Keep up the good work. Thank
you."
--Anna S., Norwood, New Jersey
"I think the Living Will provides a wonderful
service. I have a living will because I want to be sure
when I'm dying I don't want myself or my family to have to go
through more than necessary. It spells out my wishes and
is a legal document."
--Shirley M., Vienna, Virginia
"A very valuable and important service.
Everyone should register."
--Name Withheld, Demarest, New Jersey
"Thank you for having me with the U.S. Living
Will Registry. This is a great service and one that is
very necessary.
It was very considerate to have your up-grade
of my living will. There is no change to be made in my
living will but it is a great comfort to know that you have
taken the time and giving me the opportunity of making any
changes. You are concerned and caring group and I
appreciate that very much."
--Name Withheld, Paramus, New Jersey
"Having this information stating my wishes in
case of an emergency--or in case I am unable to communicate--on
record gives me a secure feeling."
--Grace R., Sun City Center, Florida
"My main comment is that it is good to be
able to be registered so that you will not be forced to be kept
alive as a vegetable. But you still have someone you trust
that will be contacted before you are taken off of life
support."
--Name Withheld, Sunny Isles Beach, Florida
"As I have buried most of my family, I know
just how difficult it is to have to make decisions for someone
who is terminally ill. Thus, I have made a Living Will &
Health Proxy--so that no one will ever have to make such
decisions for me. Then again, there might not be anyone to
make such decisions. This is why I carry a miniature
version of my documents in my wallet.
The forms from the U.S. Living Will Registry
were very clear and helpful, and I feel very good, knowing that
these documents are there for me--for when the time comes.
I should also mention that my doctors all have a copy of these
documents, together with my medical records."
--Mary G., Greenvale, New York
"I have peace of mind knowing that I have an
Advance Directive but I feel even more at ease knowing any
health care providers can access it if needed, regardless of the
fact that they might not be a "member". Thank you."
--Marian B., Mine Hill, New Jersey
"Thank you for your service. I feel
comfortable knowing that my last wishes are much more likely to
be carried out."
--Barbara S., Norfolk, Virginia
"Efficient and easy. An ideal use of
the Internet."
--Rabbi David S., Redondo Beach, California
"We have had this service for a year and,
although we have not required any health organization to use it,
it gives us peace of mind to know that our directives are
available when and if that need arises. We thank the
Registry for making this available at no charge."
--Name withheld, Shingle Springs, California
"I feel that this is one of "the" most
important services any person could have. It's a peace of
mind that if you have something happen to you, your family will
be notified. Thanks."
--Elliot C., Centre Ville, Virginia
"Last year when I had my latest physical the
doctor asked if I had a Living Will. I told him that I had
one and then I told him about the Living Will Registry and
showed him the stickers on my drivers license and health
insurance card. Hopefully, he told other patients about
your service."
--Name withheld, Euless, Texas
"I think the service provided by the Registry
is invaluable for keeping data applicable to our wills, health
care directives, power of attorney, etc. updated."
--Morton P., Suffern, New York
"The U.S. Living Will Registry is the most
practical and sensible way of insuring that my wishes will be
honored. I have every confidence that irregardless of
where I am, my Living Will will be available to the medical
personnel caring for me. This service gives me and my
loved ones peace of mind."
--Charlotte B., Seattle, Washington
"Take control for that day in which you may
not have control. Do it, do it now!"
--Name withheld
"The Registry is a fast and efficient system
for accessing health directives. I have recommended the
Registry to all my friends who have executed living wills."
--Jean S., Bradenton, Florida
"I trust my husband to honor my wishes, but I
have learned from experience that my parent will contest an
advance directive. By registering my Living Will, I hope
to minimize the obstacles my parent can mount. Thanks for
you wonderful service."
--Name withheld, Juneau, Alaska
"I registered my advance directive because it
was very important to me that the medical care which I choose be
followed. I am glad I did so and think that you provide a
valuable service because medical information is easily lost and
best kept by a central location."
--Name withheld, Quincy, Massachusetts
"I was hospitalized and the first hospital
Palisade General knew nothing about the web site being
centralized. When I was moved to the hospital that my
doctor used in another city, they immediately located my file
and it amde processing of my entrance very easy. I tell
everyone about this service that I can."
--Name withheld, Weehawken, New Jersey
"At admissions in Pascack Valley Hospital,
Westwood, NJ, they gave me the information on the registry.
I thought it was a terrific idea and registered.
I now have a very small sticker attached to
my driver's license and medicare card which can be found very
quickly and is always with me.
I show it to many people and surprised not
many know about it, including doctors."
--Grace M., Woodcliff Lake, New Jersey
"When registering today with the hospital for
surgery, one of their questions was, "Do you have a living
will?" People would be well-advised to have a sticker on
their driver's license and insurance cards to help with hospital
admission."
--Frank K., Falls Church, Virginia
"Excellent protection for those of us who
have all relatives living far away geographically."
--Name withheld, Worcester, Massachusetts
"With families scattered world wide now
having a central location for important desires like this is
essential. No one has to track down a particular family
member for the decisions."
--Douglas H., Pt. Orange, Florida
"I was widowed on March 30, 2003 and so I am
alone in the world except for two 1st cousins who live many
states away. I have good friends but did not want to
burden them with momentous decision making should I fall so ill
that my survival was "iffy"--hence the Living Will."
--Name withheld, Montvale, New Jersey
"The Living Will Registry has given me the
peace of mind that I as a single person need. This
document assures me that my wishes regarding advance directives
will be carried out no matter which health facility I am
transported to especially when I cannot speak for myself."
--Anita K., Rockaway, New Jersey
"My husband and I registered our advance
directives to insure that our wishes would be available to any
hospital or physician who needed to know--this, without the
burden of having to carry around our living wills to avoid the
"crash cart" mentality of the medical professionals who worry
about malpractice suits in our litigious society.
It's very comforting to know that our living
wills are available to the health care providers without having
to deal with family members who are grief-stricken and really
don't know what to do. Many wrong and terrible decisions
are made by loved ones at these times.
As a retired registered nurse, I have
personally witnessed family members agreeing to a G/T tube, (a
tube that carries nutrition directly to the stomach), and
thereby, ignorantly, sentencing their loved ones to a prolonged
period of indignity, diapers, a vegetative state that goes on
for years. It's horrible to watch this be inflicted
on the poor patient and
their families.
Then, just try to get the tube removed!
Plan on spending your life in court and paying mucho bucks to
attorneys."
--Lorraine F., Rivervale, New Jersey
"I registered my advance directive because it
was very important to me then, and still is that my final wishes
be carried out when my time comes. Also, too, that I shall
not be kept alive by any machine, or any other artificial
means. It shall remain in God's Hands.
Yes, I truly believe the U.S. Living Will
Registry provides a very important and valuable service. I
am very glad that I did register my advance directive with the
Registry, and highly recommend others to do the same.
Thank you very much for your cooperation and help, and please
continue my Registration."
--Irene K., Guttenberg, New Jersey
"I think it is good to have this registry as
it places info for those that will be taking care of future
arrangements when I can no longer do so."
--Name withheld, Naples, Florida
"Knowing that I am registered with you, gives
me great peace of mind! If there were any disagreements in
my family, I know that my wishes will prevail!"
--Name withheld, Hallandale Beach, Florida
"It is comforting to know that something this
important is in the hands of competent people."
--Robert T., Emerson, New Jersey
"I believe having a Living Will is important
as you are stating what you wish to be done or not done if you
cannot speak for yourself."
--Name withheld, Rochelle Park, New Jersey
"We registered for a living will due to
serious medical problems which created an immediate need for
such documents. The recent Florida situation confirmed our
decision to register. We believe every person should have
a living will and that you are doing an excellent job in
providing this service for making them available when needed."
--Myrna & Leonard G., Lakewood, New Jersey
"I registered with the U.S. Living Will
Registry in order to ensure that, in the event I am unable to
express my wishes myself, health-care providers will have no
doubt as to my wish to have heroic treatment withheld when my
life has reached its end. This registry provides an
invaluable service to both patients and caregivers. I have
been registered for many years and will continue to do so
indefinitely. I recommend other to do likewise."
--Name withheld, Englewood, New Jersey
"Personally, I am glad I registered when I
did, it's less for the family to do. Also in my case to
have not only my organs donated but also my body. I
recommend this to all my friends. I just wish they would
realize how important this is."
--Irene T., Manchester, New Jersey
"I would recommend that anyone with a living
will have it registered with the U.S. Living Will Registry.
When you have the sticker on our health card there are no
questions to be answered at the hospital. It gives you
peace of mind to know your wishes will be carried out as you
want when you die."
--Name withheld, Hillsdale, New Jersey
"I was advised to register when I had serious
surgery at Englewood Hospital in 2002. I'm glad I did as
this can cause such controversy for family & friends when a
decision without living will may have to be made. This is
a valuable service and will give peace of mind without guilt
when a decision to live or die has to be made. I highly
recommend this service."
--Name withheld, Spring Valley, New York
"I was advised by one of the doctors at
Englewood Hospital to register. Yes, I am glad I did.
Yes, the Registry does provide a valuable service. I
suggest and recommend everyone to register. Thank you for
your service."
--Michael A., River Edge, New Jersey
"I feel that everyone should have a living
will so if a time comes that they get so that they cannot talk
it will be there and your doctor and your loved ones will know
what to do. I have one at Lenoir Memorial Hospital and one
at my doctor's office and one at home so my children and my
doctor will know what to do if the time comes."
--Name withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
"Save your love ones from the difficult and
heart wrenching decisions! Let your will be known before
you're unable to! Thank you for making the process easy
and for the new renewal and update forms."
--Thomas O., Swedesboro, New Jersey
"The day before my husband's surgery, we both
signed the U.S. Living Will Registry. He stopped breathing
in the Recovery Room and was diagnosed as having severe brain
damage. Because of the Registry, I was able to invoke my
husband's wishes not to be sustained on a respirator."
--Janet S., Highlands, New Jersey
"First and foremost, thank you for your
wonderful service! Could you please send me some brochures
on what this program is all about; I would like to share them
with friends and family--please.
I am very pleased that I have signed up to
have a "living will" registry. If something should happen
to me my immediate family knows of my wishes and all the
legalities are taken care of--so in their sadness they would not
have to deal with this amongst other things at that time.
I believe in donating organs to help someone
in need. If my body is usable, at my time of death, I want
others to be given "life" and experience all their dreams.
I especially would like to help a child in need-this is the way
to do that if available. I find complete happiness knowing
that in my time of death I can save someone else!"
--Christine S., Lowman, New York
"Since my wife and I do travel we welcome the
fact that our wishes will be available anywhere in the country,
not just at home. Thank you."
--Robert B., Ellison Bay, Wisconsin
"I think that this is a great service and
tell all my friends about it."
--Ronald J., Hampden, Maine
"The U.S. Living Will Registry is an
extremely valuable service. The stickers for driver's
license and insurance card are a great idea. Thanks!"
--Patricia W., Pittsboro, North Carolina
"I haven't had to have anyone contact you,
for information as yet. But it surely is a good thing, to
have this registered for now."
--Name withheld, Sturgeon Bay, Wisconsin
"It is a great comfort to know my medical
directive (living will) is available to the medical
professionals who might need it when I am unable to express my
wishes. I believe everyone should avail themselves of this
service."
--Name withheld, Manassas, Virginia
"Thank you so much for so vital a service!
I have made copies of your address for 4 friends immediately and
plan on recommending widely your very necessary and caring
service.
I was surprised to get your update/renewal
this week, which speaks of the Registry's thoroughness!
Thanks again!"
--Sherrill A., New York City, New York
"I feel as though I am better protected thru
your agency."
--Name withheld, Appleton, Wisconsin
"As a CNA (Certified Nursing Assistant) and
working with the elderly--I have come across some horrible
situations of people being kept alive because they had NO
living will before tragedy struck. I've seen helpless people
being kept alive w/feeding tubes because of this. No
life--curled up in the fetal position and because there was no
family to help these people--the state is in control and no
way to let these people go----
Think enough about yourself to take care of
your wishes! List it with U.S. Living Will Registry and
feel confident your wishes will be met."
--Georgina M., McKenna, Washington
"I think this is a great service.
Thanks to my lawyer for informing me."
--Nancy H., Hudson, Florida
"It is a comfort to know that my wishes will
be taken care of with my advance directive when it's needed.
It's a valuable service and makes it easier for my family.
I highly recommend it."
--Name withheld, Chicago, Illinois
"It's one of the nicest things you can do for
your family. I'm glad I did it and I would recommend it to
everyone for the peace of mind it gives you."
--Bill L., Flatwoods, Kentucky
"Taking charge of your own treatment relieves
relatives and friends who might otherwise feel they had to
accept that responsibility. That's reason #1.
Reason #2 is that I feel more confident with
the Living Will that I'll be extended the courtesy of having my
wishes followed by those in the medical community (not to
mention the legal and legislative communities) should I be
unable to demand my rights in extreme circumstances.
Both reasons give me peace of mind."
--Name withheld, Burien, Washington
"This service makes life easier for those you
love. Everyone should have their will registered! It
makes good common sense to do so!"
--Name withheld, Herndon, Virginia
"Your card helped to avoid additional paper
work when I was admitted into the hospital for surgery.
Thank you."
--Leo L., Aventura, Florida
"Very available!!"
--James P., Waldo, Kansas
"I think the U.S. Living Will Registry is
great. I want to make my own decisions, not the
Florida Gov Jeb Bush, or Congress, or the President. They
have enough work to stay busy like, crime, taxes and paying
$2.17 a gallon of gas. Let them work on those and other
problems."
--Name withheld, Carrollton, Texas
"It is vital to register your wishes as to
your final disposal to avoid any family squables and
misunderstandings. The U.S. Living Will Registry provides
the exact needs in this regard. We, my wife and I, thank you
very much for providing these services."
--Name withheld, Miami, Florida
"This is great at all times but especially
when you travel and we do a lot."
--Hattie W., Kinston, North Carolina
"I hope that by having my wishes for a
natural death recorded, it will save any friction with family
members, doctors, or hospital. It is my wish, not to be
kept alive by a machine when nature says it is time for me to
go."
--Name withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
"I moved from N.J. to Florida and didn't know
how to get in touch to change my address, etc.. You got in
touch with me and I really appreciate it. Great follow
up."
--Robert L., Margate, Florida
"I registered my advance directive following
the death of my mother who did not have a living will. She
and my sister were in the process of making her wishes known to
her physician but he said he couldn't do it right then, he was
going to lunch. On her way for x-rays she had heart
failure and they hooked her up to life support. In order
to get this disconnected we had to bring in family members from
long distances to meet with a group of hospital officials and
her physician to get the life support disconnected. My
husband and I immediately had our living wills made. This
relieves the family of the heartache we went through. I do
not wish to be kept alive by a machine if there can be no
quality of life for me."
--Name withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
"My aunt and I both signed with the U.S.
Living Will Registry. It became very beneficial 3 months
later when she was taken seriously ill. Having seen the
help it provided her family I am so glad I signed up as well.
I tell all my friends about this program and definitely
recommend it to them."
--Darla C., Renton, Washington
"U.S. Living Will Registry provides an
important service in a very convenient way. The peace of
mind my wife and I have now is very much appreciated."
--Bruce S., Virginia Beach, Virginia
"1. I believe that it's important to
have a living will.
2. I feel the U.S. Living Will Registry provides an
invaluable service, and am happy to have been aware of its
benefit. I implore everyone to take advantage of this."
--Nancy S., Lake Geneva, Wisconsin
"It gives me peace of mind to know that my
"living will" is on file in the National Registry and is
regularly updated to keep it current. Thank you."
--Rose B., Winter Haven, Florida
"I appreciate the yearly update that you
initiate--reminding me that I am enrolled in an important
service to myself and my loved ones. It makes me feel good
and responsible to know that I have done this and that you keep
the record up to date."
--Name withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
"I registered my advance directive to insure
that my wishes are carried out at the time of my final days.
I am pleased with the U.S. Living Will Registry and recommend it
to others. This is a valuable service which others might
want to consider for peace of mind."
--Name withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
"I value the comfort of knowing that medical
personnel, viewing the identification I carry, will see that I
have a living will registered with you, and can obtain a copy of
that document almost effortlessly to learn my wishes concerning
medical care."
--Dale M., New Bern, North Carolina
"Have not had to use the services, but feel
comfortable my wishes will be done. A great peace of
mind!"
--Marie W., Kinston, North Carolina
"I registered when I went in for surgery in
12/04. I am glad I did. I do think the U.S. Living Will
Registry provides a valuable service, however the only way to
validate this, unfortunately, would be if I needed to put it to
the test. I would recommend others do the same. I
registered because my father's wife's wishes were not honored
due to a glitch in the wording of her advanced medical
directives."
--Susan B., Hampton, Virginia
"The Living Will is such an important
document that I believe it should be required by law. It
gives me great peace of mind to know that if I ever am in a
condition to which my Living Will applies, my loved ones will
not have to make soul-shattering decisions at a time when life
and death decisions are difficult enough without such an added
burden. I also like knowing that my personal wishes will
be carried out in the manner I specified in my Living Will.
The forms provided to us for the Living Will
were very easy to understand and fill out. Whoever wrote
and designed them did an excellent job! Thank you!
However, when it came to making copies of the completed forms
for our doctor, family members and personal records, the
"booklet" format (11" X 17" paper folded to make four pages)
made it quite awkward to photocopy. Not a big deal but
something to consider in the future.
I have talked with many people who do not
know how to even start making a Living Will. Sentara
Health care in Virginia made the process very, very easy for my
family and did not charge anything. However, I have
noticed that whenever Living Wills are mentioned in newspapers,
magazines, on news programs, etc., the process described sounds
complicated and the sources for the appropriate documentation
are described in a vague manner. Perhaps there needs to be
a lot more publicity and education about the simplicity of the
process if one just contacts a local hospital."
--Suzanne H., Williamsburg, Virginia
"Enclosed please find my updated registration
form for the Living Will Registry: I wouldn't live-and
especially not die-without it!
Please encourage everyone to get a Living
Will: the recent events in Florida have amply demonstrated
the importance of such a document. For myself, I would not
want to be continued on Life-support Systems or other artificial
means of prolonging life if seriously impaired physically,
and/or if mentally distressed - and for my family I hope with
this document to save them from worries about doing the "right
thing" if I become incapacitated."
--Name withheld, Williamsburg, Virginia
"Great service, something we all need!
I have told others about it."
--Elizabeth B., Virginia Beach, Virginia
"Thank you for making this important service
available to the public."
--Name withheld, Panama City, Florida
"This is an excellent service."
--Jean G., Huntersville, North Carolina
"I have not used the Registry but nice
knowing it's available when needed. It's comforting to
have the backup as to my definite wishes. Thank you for
providing it."
--Name withheld, Oceanside, California
"It gives me peace of mind to know that by
having an advance directive my family won't have to make this
decision."
--Zannie T., Grifton, North Carolina
"I registered my living will so it would be
available at multiple locations in the event of an emergency.
Also, it makes clear who has the authority to act on my behalf
in medical emergencies."
--Name withheld, Manassas, Virginia
"My youngest daughter is the administrator of
my estate. I don't want her or my other two children to
make the decision for me. I made that decision when I
signed the living will. She knows that my wishes are not
to be kept alive through any artificial means, unless there is
positive knowledge that I can return to a life that is as active
as I am now. The Terri Schiavo case is a good example that
I point out to my children. I worked in several hospitals
as a medical secretary and I saw first hand what that sort of
stuff does to families. That is what prompted me to go get
my living will done."
--Name withheld, LaGrange, North Carolina
"The U.S. Living Will Registry definitely
provides a valuable service. I'm glad my information will
be easily available, if necessary."
--Name withheld, Hawthorn Woods, Illinois
"Every adult should take advantage of this
service, especially if you travel."
--Pat T., Fort Lauderdale, Florida
"I think the U.S. Living Will Registry is a
wonderful service. We never know when someone in our
family may need your services. It is a wonderful way for
our loved ones to live on in someone else and in doing so, our
loved ones will live on in our lives and heart. I hope
more people will feel the need in their heart to do the same
thing."
--Jacqueline H., Kinston, North Carolina
"Registration was part of the service
provided by an attorney who handled a legal matter for me.
It has proven to be a time saver on the occassion of three
emergency hospital visits. It further gives me a sense of
security knowing that my wishes will remain unchanged and
available until and unless I so direct. Everyone should be
registered for the convenience of both the registrant and the
caregiver."
--Marilyn P., Poy Seppe, Wisconsin
"My husband and I are frequent travelers
finding ourselves in many parts of the U.S.A.. There is
satisfaction in knowing if something dreaded happens, health
care workers will be able to access our wishes, through the
Living Will Registry for medical treatment. Thank you for
providing such a good resource that can reach far and wide to
let our family be aware of any emergency situation."
--Name withheld, Yuma, Arizona
"It's great to have such interest in checking
on me to make sure my living will is up to date. Thank
you."
--Louise S., Paramus, New Jersey
"I registered my living will because when my
mother-in-law went into the hospital and she didn't have one,
things took a turn for the worse. She was being kept alive
by machines. It was always her wish that if it came to
that point she wanted us to pull the plug and let her go.
Since my husband was her oldest child the hospital turned to him
to make the decision and they wanted him to sign for it.
His nieces were against him signing and having the hospital let
their grandmother die. We all agreed to meet one last time
the next morning to say our final good-byes, have him sign and
let the hospital stop the machines. My husband had the
worst night of his life that night. He was upset that he
had to be one who was signing to end his mother's life, and he
worried that his nieces might never forgive him for doing what
he knew his mother wanted. He got hardly any sleep at all
that night. Luckily by the time we had all met at the
hospital mom had passed away on her own. We had just
missed her by about a half hour.
It was then and there that I decided I did
not want my children to go through this so I made up a living
will and registered it. I am thrilled that there is a
service like this and that I am a part of it so that my children
will never have to face what my husband did."
--Name withheld, Union Beach, New Jersey
"With my living will I can know that any
medical decisions are already made, my family does not have to
share the devastating decisions themselves. I am at ease
knowing all things that need to be done will be my choices.
Everyone should have a living will in place in case of
emergencies or injuries and you are not at your local hospital
or doctor's office."
--Joyce H., Newport News, Virginia
" I am glad we had this done several years
ago. My children will not have to make a decision as to
put me on life support or to take me off. I have already
made that decision and acted upon it. I really feel good
about making this decision for my life."
--Helen S., Kinston, North Carolina
"I feel the U.S. Living Will Registry is a
valuable service and would recommend all citizens to take care
of as soon as possible. I registered for this service so
my family would not be burdened at the time of my death."
--Faye G., Warwick, Rhode Island
"Very happy with service, cannot stress how
important it is to not worry about these things. Everyone
should have one on record."
--Name withheld, Pitcher, New York
"I feel the Registry can be of great service
in times of crisis if one is unable to fully participate in
making ones wishes known and in a hospital far from home.
It makes health care choices clearer to both loved ones and
health providers."
--Name withheld, Harrington Park, New Jersey
"Fortunately I have not had to use my living
will yet, but with the service I have had concerning updates to
their system, I believe my affairs will be handled promptly, and
with dignity. I didn't have to contact them with my update
they contacted me."
--Susan P., Williamsburg, Virginia
"I think it is wonderful to have all of my
wishes for medical care--or for no further medical care--in
writing, and so easily accessible. The U.S. Living Will
Registry even includes options for donating my body to medical
school, science or whatever option I might be interested in.
A great job!!!"
--Janet R., Hampton, Virginia
"I like knowing my living will can be
accessed from out of state. If I'm injured while
traveling, whoever attends me will know my wishes directly
without having to query family members who could be overwhelmed
by circumstances relating to my condition. I want to ease
any burden my family might experience and am grateful to the
Registry for the opportunity to do so."
--Katherine M., Missoula, Montana
"I'm glad I registered my advance directive,
and I've advised my friends to do the same. It will make
it easier for our children should the need arise to make
decisions regarding our health and wishes."
--Name withheld, Pompton Plains, New Jersey
"I do not want to put my family and friends
in the situation that Terri Schiavo was in during this year in
Florida. The media has left a permanent scar on the
families, especially the children, because of lack of thought
for a living will when she was younger."
--Name withheld, Salisbury, North Carolina
"I am very pleased and fortunate to have the
services of the Living Will Registry. It was easy,
convenient, and it forced to do what I had for so long avoided
through procrastination. I live alone, so there is comfort
in having the designation on my driver's license and insurance
card. I highly recommend the U.S. Living Will Registry."
--Freddye D., Newport News, Virginia
"I think the service provided is invaluable.
In the past year I moved twice, yet the Registry through its
annual mail follow up was able to locate me, update its records
and presumably keep my attorney abreast of my current mailing
address and phone number."
--Morton P., Monroe, New York
"It's a comfort to know this service is
available. Documents that can be revealed by your service
when I can't speak. This is a valuable service to make
sure my wishes are known when I can't, by a simple phone call.
Thank you."
--Name withheld, Racine, Wisconsin
"I think it is very important for everyone
with living wills to have them registered. This will
provide concrete proof of the person's wishes and intentions,
and it will help to resolve any possible future complications,
ambiguities, or dissension among family members, medical and
legal authorities, and care-givers."
--Name withheld, New York, New York
"Being registered with the U.S. Living Will
Registry gives me peace of mind that if and when something
happens to me--my advance directives will be available to
everyone so hopefully they will be followed. There will be
no guessing or uncertainty as to what my wishes are.
Family and friends will not have to make tough decisions at a
difficult time, I have made them already! Thank you for
providing this service."
--Susan H., Neenah, Wisconsin
"I believe that this is a great idea and
would recommend this valuable service to all my friends."
--Name withheld, New York, New York
"I registered with this service before I
underwent surgery a couple of years ago to clearly identify my
wishes and to put in writing the procedures to follow and to
take pressure off my family should they be faced to make
decisions should my health take a turn for the worse.
I am very glad I did this and am very happy
to be part of this service provided by Sentara Health and would
recommend this service to everyone because we never know under
what circumstances it may be necessary to access this
information. This registry provides regular update
procedures and requires you to check your information
periodically for its continued validity. Thanks again for
such a helpful means to register and maintain your wishes for
use at a time when possibly I would be incapacitated and unable
to make such decisions regarding my health. Thanks again."
--Robert D., Virginia Beach, Virginia
"Be kind to your family--register with the
U.S. Living Will Registry."
--Deanna B., Murfreesboro, North Carolina
"After my child was born I was concerned if
something happened to me how would my husband react? Would
he do what I wanted? Or would he be so upset he would let
others sway him. My own personal living will ensures my
wishes are granted."
--Name withheld, Lake Elmo, Minnesota
"A wonderful service, the efficacy of which I
hope I won't realize for a long time to come."
--Mickey S., Palm City, Florida
"I think your website is a great idea.
I think the service you provide is a necessary one. In
2002 my youngest sister (26) was killed by a drunk driver.
She did not ever voice her desire to be an organ donor nor did
she ever say she didn't, so my parents chose to donate her
corneas only. No other organs were harvested. I feel
certain that there was someone in the U.S. who could have used
what was salvageable. People need to be made aware of your
service and speak to their friends and family as I have done.
No one is promised tomorrow, age doesn't matter and someone
could use what we no longer will need."
--Name withheld, Kinston, North Carolina
"I like the idea of the registry because it
provides for emergency contact with specified relatives or
friends anywhere, anytime."
--George M., Clearwater, Florida
"I registered my living will because it is an
organized, very simple way to make my wishes known. The fact
that it is free was just a bonus. Thank you for making my
life a little easier."
--Angelia B., Virginia Beach, Virginia
"I have an Advanced Directive so that my
wishes for my care are known. If I am unable to voice my
wishes this will let my caregivers know what I want done.
I would hope that legislation would be passed that this advanced
directive would be accepted in all 50 states. I NEVER
want a bunch of politicians and media trying to make my
lifecare decisions.
All of my family has been given a copy and the whole issue
has been discussed."
--Name withheld, Virginia Beach, Virginia
"I think that everyone would want to do this."
--Name withheld, Virginia Beach, Virginia
"As a cancer survivor, this service has proven to be a
comfort to myself and my family. Thank you so much."
--Carolyn H., Winslow, Arizona
"I think it is a very valuable service to ease the pain of
the surviving family."
--Rose L., Chicago, Illinois
"I took this out to make sure I am not tied to a machine to
extend my life with no hope. I am glad I did this so my family won't have
to make the decision to end my life. I think this is a valuable service to
give me peace of mind."
--Helen C., Chicago, Illinois
"I wanted to do this to protect my family from having to
make life ending decisions. It would be too hard to pull the plug and also
too expensive to use up all my life insurance money to pay bills to extend my
life a month or more with no hope.
I am glad that I did this because it gives me peace of mind
knowing my loved ones will not have to live their lives with any regrets.
This service is wonderful because it helps the doctors to
know what I want when I cannot speak for myself. And my family will not
have to speak for me. I have the right to have the end the way I want."
--Marianne P., Chicago, Illinois
"I travel quite a bit, and am glad to know my wishes are
registered, that if something happens, wherever I might be, my wishes will be
met."
--Name withheld, Denmark, Wisconsin
"We registered with the U.S. Living Will Registry as part
of the process of planning for our retirement years. The application
process sparks important dialogue and introspection. The more input I can
have into these heart-wrenching decisions, the more I feel in control, and the
more guidance I give my husband and children."
--Miriam H., S. Nyack, New York
"Our attorney for our Revocable Living Trust suggested we
register with the U.S. Living Will Registry. Prior to this, we were
unaware of this service.
I am very pleased to have done so, as I know it will save
my loved ones from the anguish of not knowing what to do should I become
seriously incapacitated.
The case of Floridian (Terri Schiavo) certainly is a case
in point. With no clear evidence of her wishes, it was a very difficult
time for all involved.
I am highly impressed with the way in which the U.S. Living
Will Registry updates its information on a yearly basis.
I would highly recommend this particular service to any and
all who might be interested in being a part of same.
Thank you for letting me express my comments."
--Ethel Q., Spring Hill, Florida
"I registered my durable power of attorney with U.S. Living
Will Registry to prepare for major surgery. I wanted to make sure my
wishes were well documented in case something went wrong and I was unable to
express them verbally. All went well with my surgery and I am thankful
that U.S. Living Will Registry provided me peace of mind with their valuable
service."
--Pamela V., Dyersburg, Tennessee
"My husband and I travel to foreign countries at least once
a year. Since we are birdwatching, this travel includes so-called
third-world countries. We are grateful to lighten our load by having all
of our serious illness and end of life documents accessible through U.S. Living
Will Registry."
--Nancy D., Bradenton, Florida
"After witnessing the Terri Schiavo story, I thought it
best to make sure my wishes were documented and the people I love and trusted
most knew them.
The U.S. Living Will Registry makes it easy for hospitals,
doctors and nurses to look up these directives quickly."
--Wendy R., Dyersburg, Tennessee
"I registered on the advice of the very competent lawyer
who handled all my legal affairs after the death of my husband. I'm very
happy that I registered my advance directive and recommend that my friends do
the same."
--Bernice B., Nyack, New York
"I'm very glad I registered my advance directive with the
U.S. Living Will Registry because it has given me great peace of mind.
This is because I have a multiple endocrine neoplasia condition and an uncertain
prognosis based on my family history. I do not want my very religious
husband's beliefs to override my own birth family's beliefs about euthanasia.
I have therefore designated my brothers to speak on my behalf should I ever be
unable to do so."
--Name withheld, Renton, Virginia
"While I have never had to use the information, I feel comfortable knowing it
is available when needed." --Mary S., Lakeside, Arizona
"If I am ever in a situation that I cannot speak for myself, it is a great
comfort to me knowing in advance that my wishes will be honored as I have stated
in my advance directive. This is something that everyone should do,
because you never know when or where something could happen, leaving you in a
condition where you are not able to speak for yourself."
--Name withheld, McKenna, Washington
"Because of brain surgery a few years back...and not knowing the outcome...I
was so glad to be able before hand to direct my family in what to do in the
event that I was unable to speak for myself after surgery. They were
happy to be able to know my wishes."
--Margaret D., Kent, Washington
"I think everyone should have a living will. You should not leave that
life or death decision to someone else. You should let your loved ones
know how you feel. That way there is no doubt."
--Richard E., Fema, Ohio
"U.S. Living Will Registry provides a great service to me, personally, and to
many of my patients. In this day of extensive travel, I commend its vision
and I highly recommend its use."
--Scott S., MD, Eureka, California
"Because of the members of my family I am glad to join the U.S. Living Will
Registry. My family is scattered throughout the U.S. and now they will be
at ease in the event of my demise knowing that I will be properly taken care of
in accordance with my wishes.
I think this is a very valuable service. I would be happy to recommend
this to anyone."
--Charles J., Boulder City, Nevada
"I'm glad my husband and I are registered with the USLW registry and I tell
my friends about is as well.
Fortunately we haven't had occasion to use it. We have put the stamps
with the registry telephone number on our drivers' licenses and health insurance
cards."
--Name withheld, Greeley, Colorado
"I believe the Living Will concept is a splendid idea, and the ability to
have a Registry which guarantees its availability makes it even better.
I am an 83 year old man, in seemingly good health, whose father and 36 year
old son died of heart related problems. I have had a treatable heart
problem for almost 12 years and am aware of how suddenly they can surface.
My wife is not the agent chosen 'to pull the plug' if necessary, because she
would be unlikely to support my wishes in that respect. Instead, my
daughters, both of whom have been RN's for over 20 years and understand my
concerns, are my designated agents.
I have been on borrowed time for over 60 years, as a result of an army
incident which killed a number of my close friends, and do not want to run the
risk of a prolonged state of suspended animation, ''kept alive' by marvels of
mechanical engineering."
--Francis G., Douglas, Arizona
"The U.S. Living Will Registry provides a very valuable service. I'm
very glad I registered my advance directive with them because it's so easy for
my health providers to get my advance directive information anytime they might
need it."
--Name withheld, Sanford, North Carolina
"I'm thankful for this service. Many people in crisis situations are
far from home and regular doctors and hospitals and even from our relatives
(health care proxies). It is comforting to know that your service is there
for me and for any medical provider in times of crisis."
--Name withheld, Kenosha, Wisconsin
"Since I am 82 and have daughters in three states, there is no telling where
I might be in case of a need for information Living Will Registry has on file.
I would recommend it to anyone.
I work as a volunteer (for Trauma Intervention Program) where we are called
to "Be there" for emergency needs. We had a death call where no one knew
any of her relatives or desires. The Living Will Registry would have been
a great help."
--Name withheld, Sweet Home, Oregon
"I registered my advance directive because I wanted my wishes known and
documented. Yes, I am very glad I registered. It has given me peace
of mind. Even though I have informed my family of my wishes, they might
forget under duress or might feel guilty or unsure if the situation ever arose.
This way, it relieves them of the responsibility. The U.S. Living Will
Registry provides an invaluable service, and I would definitely recommend others
to research it and see if it would fit their needs."
--Name withheld, Burlington, Kentucky
"I appreciate this service you have provided to me. By having this
Directory there is no question what your wishes are and can be backed up by
contacting U.S. Living Will Registry. Thank you so much."
----Helen H., Show Lou, Arizona
"Although we always carry a copy of the Living Will with us when we travel
around the country in our RV, it's comforting to know that we can rely on
medical facilities to have access to our Wills if something should happen to
both of us. It is a great safety net!"
--Name withheld, Grapeview, Washington
"U.S. Living Will Registry may be the best thing you could do to have a safe
record of yourself, and your needs on file. The worst thing you could
do...is nothing at all."
--Gary M., Seattle, Washington
"This is a very valuable service...all Americans should apply. Not only
that your wishes are respected but you have the ability to provide life with
your donations, also it is a good idea to donate your body for science."
--Stephen W., Virginia Beach, Virginia
"I feel this service is very beneficial. Everyone should be registered
in case of death or injury and the service is free."
--Edna W., Juneau, Alaska
"I was provided the opportunity to create and register my advance directive
while preparing for an upcoming surgery. It provided an opportunity for
discussion with my family about my wishes and allowed a sense of freedom with
one less thing to worry about as I went into surgery.
The rest of my family decided it was also something they wanted to do and so
we have all completed and registered our directives. All three
generations.
This is especially important to us as we are frequent travelers and may not
always be near familiar surrounds and healthcare providers. What a sense
of freedom we've found."
--Grace W., Kent, Washington
"I believe that the Registry does a tremendous job of providing folks an
outlet to formalize their wishes about their death. It allows one to put
into place people who will be advocates for the dying person.
Thinking about death as part of the natural life process is difficult for
most of us. But, essential if we care about our survivors."
--Richard D., Santa Fe, New Mexico
"My wife and I are grateful to Valley Medical Center, Renton, Washington, for
making us aware of and enrolling us in the "US Living Will Registry." As
we travel nationally and internationally it gives us a certain degree of
security in our health matters."
--Thomas P., Bremerton, Washington
"I feel this is an extremely helpful service and I truly thank you for
providing it. It gives me immense peace of mind to know that my wishes in
these matters will be immediately available to those who need to know it should
the time arise."
--Martin D., Fall Creek, Oregon
"What a great service. Already used it for access. Nice to know there
is ready availability of this information."
--Greg R., Veneta, Oregon
"My domestic partner, Kathy, and I want to ensure that our wishes are
followed in the event of our death. We also rest easier knowing that we
have a nationally registered will and durable power of attorney for healthcare.
We also like the national registry of our organ donor wishes!
We think the U.S. Living Will Registry provides an excellent and valuable
service for us. We regularly pass on this Registry information to friends
and acquaintances. Thanks for this valuable service!"
--Lynne A., Sequim, Washington
"The Living Will Registry ensures that my health care providers, friends and
family have access to my decisions about my end-of-life care. It
provides me with a sense of security and peace of mind knowing my wishes will be
respected."
--Joanne A., San Francisco, California
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